We see in many films the foe who is in the mask of friend but we could not identify them until we loss ours and after realizing our mistake its too late for recovery
Please go through the below and be safe.
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One of the universal rules in our daily life is - No matter how pure and good your intentions/actions might be, you will never be able to keep everyone happy.
Life is a bouquet of expectations. The more expectations are fulfilled, the happier you become. The more righteous path you follow, the more peace of mind you get.
In your journey to righteousness and happiness, you'll always find some people who will directly or indirectly work to emotionally hurt you.
Of those who hurt you, the worst are those are disguised as Friends. In my practice of psychiatry, for common man understanding I classify them into the category of Manipulators.
In your journey to righteousness and happiness, you'll always find some people who will directly or indirectly work to emotionally hurt you.
Of those who hurt you, the worst are those are disguised as Friends. In my practice of psychiatry, for common man understanding I classify them into the category of Manipulators.
The most common traits of these psychological leeches are -
1. Wear the mask of friendship/family.
2. They indirectly always make you focus on the problems and troubles in your life. This ways destroying the positivity and love in your life.
2. They indirectly always make you focus on the problems and troubles in your life. This ways destroying the positivity and love in your life.
3. They exaggerate the problems and troubles in your life, decreasing your confidence level.
4. They show big dreams/hopes which blind you from the current happiness in your life.
They'll use terms from morality, religion or corporate culture to divert your mind too think beyond practicality.
5. They use public appreciation and criticism as ways to control your emotions. Make you crave for their appreciation.
4. They show big dreams/hopes which blind you from the current happiness in your life.
They'll use terms from morality, religion or corporate culture to divert your mind too think beyond practicality.
5. They use public appreciation and criticism as ways to control your emotions. Make you crave for their appreciation.
6. They always show their life and struggles in an exaggerated way. Always putting themselves as superior to you in either be it achieving happiness or battling sadness.
7. They will gain knowledge of your weakness and use them against you, to make you emotionally weak and emotionally dependant on them.
8. They will constantly lie about life events, and have different stories all the time.
7. They will gain knowledge of your weakness and use them against you, to make you emotionally weak and emotionally dependant on them.
8. They will constantly lie about life events, and have different stories all the time.
9. They slowly gain control over your social, emotional and relationship circles, destroying all those relationships who they don't like.
Most people are able to recognize a manipulator only after much psychological damage has been done.. That day A LIFELONG ENEMY IS BORN in your mind.
A manipulator is an Enemy that should never be forgotten ... as rest assure , he/she will come back to hurt you.
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A manipulator is an Enemy that should never be forgotten ... as rest assure , he/she will come back to hurt you.
written by -
Dr.Hemant Mittal
(Psychiatrist, Motivational Writer and Counselor)
(Psychiatrist, Motivational Writer and Counselor)
email – eksoch@gmail.com
Dear Friends I find this in FB and hoping it will definetly known to many people by sharing this.
That's why I am sharing here
Thank you Dr. Hemant Mittal
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