Demons in office

Demons in Office

Who is this guy ask him to meet me immediately ordered Sanjay
Demon in office ? by seeing it he got furious

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Whats'up  Suri ? why you are not in good mood ?
I asked him by seeing his feeble face

After a small sigh he explained.

you know I am a blogger.  yesterday I  published my first post, which  is first one in  a series of employer and employee relations.
Named it as Demon in office

After seeing it our boss thought that he relates to it he was very furious on me.

As I am on leave yesterday I immediately opened the blog and completed the post

asked him that it is not that much, any boss can't react no! I asked him

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How many times I told you that  think before writing about higher authorities

If I encouraged you by seeing your earlier posts, don't think I will support you always ?

understand  

shouted Sanjay 

If you think your boss  as demon

What I have to think about all of you

You all are demons for me

Demons in office 

I shivered a little by seeing his behavior,
I know if I not provide correct explanation he will not leave me

Sir, It is not our story
I am writing in general.
 How a boss and his subordinates relationship should be,need in  their behavioral change etc.,
in a series

he cooled himself to some extent
Then he told his openions and given some his suggestions and thoughts for future series
I noted them and came back

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Our boss Sanjay is a nice person. I am very much like him. but he misunderstood me that's annoying me a lot.

But I will definitely consider his views

Demon in office

Hey man get up its getting late!

Its my better half sounding as wake up call

Why now a days you are behaving like a child, who is weeping for going to school?

Her remarks on my behavior

Yes, I do agree with her , what to do ?

All of a sudden we can’t move out of the job.  A big Yes you know!

If we try to come out and search for a job means its definitely a suicidal attempt

What I have to do?

In every organization normally CFO, COO ,CEO it’s the hierarchy and   one will not interfere in others job

But in my organization my boss don’t know about the finance, but he will think he know better than all of us

If we go with a problem he says in a tone like- Fire Star Salmon Raju in the picture of Dubaiseen- . that  “you have  

to do this work.  I am doing it for you”.

He didn’t even spell a word.  spooning to his boss that's all  he knows.

What Diet Soda does to Your Body? - HOW COMPANIES ARE FOOLING YOU!!

What Diet Soda does to Your Body? - HOW COMPANIES ARE FOOLING YOU!!

More evidence that diet soda contributes to weight gain, not weight loss

A new study published in the Journal of the American Geriatrics Society found that people who drank diet soda gained almost triple the abdominal fat over nine years as those who didn’t drink diet soda. The study analyzed data from 749 people.

People who didn’t drink diet soda gained about 0.8 inches. around their waists over the study period, but people who drank diet soda daily gained 3.2 inches. Those who fell in the middle — occasional drinkers of diet soda — gained about 1.8 in.

The belly is a bad place for extra kilos - it increases chances of heart disorders and Type 2 diabetes by many times.

These results, which the study authors call “striking,” add to the growing body of evidence that no- and low-calorie sweeteners may come with health concerns.
Sugar-free sodas contain substances that sweeten up soda at 200-600 times the sweetness of sugar.

The reason to this gain has been said to be - “Your body is used to knowing that a sweet taste means you are ingesting energy in the form of calories that, if you don’t burn them off, is going to convert to fat,”. Artificial sweeteners, however, confuse our bodies and weaken the link in our brains between sweetness and calories. That can lead to weight gain and cravings for sweeter and sweeter treats.

A recent study in mice showed that artificial sweeteners actually changed the gut bacteria of mice in ways that made them vulnerable to insulin resistance and glucose intolerance — both of which can lead to weight gain. And other mice research suggests that artificial sweeteners are associated with a drop in the appetite-regulating hormone leptin, Hazuda says. Leptin is the hormone that inhibits hunger.

 THIS ARTICLE IS FROM TIME MAGAZINE. IT SHOW-CASES HOW COMPANIES ARE FOOLING YOU THROUGH THEIR ADVERTISEMENTS.
BE CAREFUL.

YOUR HEALTH IS YOUR CHOICE!!

Rocky - Stallone

This is one of the SADDEST stories ever told in Hollywood. His name is Sylvestar Stallone. One of the BIGGEST and Most famous American Movie superstars. Back in the day, Stallone was a
struggling actor in every definition. At some point, he got so broke that he stole his wife's jewellery and sold it. Things got so bad that he even ended up homeless. Yes, he slept at the New York bus station for 3 days. Unable to pay rent or afford food. His lowest point came when he tried to sell his dog at the liquor store to any
stranger. He didn't have money to feed the dog anymore. He sold it at $25 only. He says he walked away crying.
Two weeks later,he saw a boxing match between Mohammed Ali and Chuck Wepner and that match gave him the inspiration to write the script for the famous movie,ROCKY. He wrote the script for 20 hours! He tried to sell it and got an offer for $125,000 for the script. But he had just ONE REQUEST. He wanted to STAR in
the movie. He wanted to be the MAIN ACTOR. Rocky himself. But the studio said NO. They wanted a REAL STAR.
They said he "Looked funny and talked funny". He left with his script. A few weeks later,the studio offered him $250,000 for the script. He refused. They even offered $350,000. He still refused. They wanted his movie. But NOT him. He said NO. He had to be
IN THAT MOVIE.
After a while,the studio agreed,gave him $35,000 for the script and let him star in it! The rest is history! The movie won Best Picture, Best Directing and Best Film Editing at the prestigious
Oscar Awards. He was even nominated for BEST ACTOR! The Movie ROCKY was even inducted into the American National Film Registry as one of the greatest movies ever!
And do You know the first thing he bought with the $35,000? THE DOG HE SOLD. Yes,Stallone LOVED HIS DOG SO MUCH that he stood at the liquor store for 3 days waiting for the man he sold
his dog to. And on the 3rd day,he saw the man coming with the dog. Stallone explained why he sold the dog and begged for the dog back. The man refused. Stallone offered him $100. The
man refused. He offered him $500. And the guy refused. Yes,he refused even $1000. And,Believe it or Not,Stallone had to pay $15,000 for the same,same dog he sold at $25 only! And he
finally got his dog back!
And today,the same Stallone who slept in the streets and sold his dog JUST BECAUSE he couldn't even feed it anymore,is one of the GREATEST Movie Stars who ever walked the Earth!
Being broke is BAD. Really BAD. Have You ever had a dream? A wonderful dream? But You are too broke to implement it? Too tiny to do it? Too small to accomplish it? Damn! I've been there too many times!
Life is tough. Opportunities will pass you by,just because you are a
NOBODY. People will want your products but NOT YOU. Its a tough
world. If you ain't already famous, or rich or "connected", You will find it rough.
Doors will be shut on You. People will steal your glory and crash your hopes. You will push and push. And yet NOTHING WILL HAPPEN.
And then your hopes will be crashed. You will be broke. Damn broke. You will do odd jobs for survival. You will be unable to feed yourself. And Yes, you may end up sleeping in the streets.
It happens. Yes, it does.
BUT NEVER LET THEM CRUSH THAT DREAM. Whatever happens to
You, Keep Dreaming. Even when they crush your hopes, Keep Dreaming. Even when they turn you away, Keep Dreaming.
Even when they shut you down, Keep Dreaming.
NO ONE KNOWS WHAT YOU ARE CAPABLE OF EXCEPT YOURSELF! People will judge You by HOW you look. And by WHAT You have.
But please, Fight on! Fight for Your place in history. Fight for your glory. NEVER EVER GIVE UP!
Even if it means selling all your clothes and sleeping with the dogs, ITS OKAY! But AS LONG AS YOU ARE STILL ALIVE, Your STORY IS NOT OVER. TRUST ME.
Keep Up the Fight. Keep your dreams and hope alive. Go great .

Want to battle Negativity ?

5 ways to Battle Negativity

1. Love yourself -

 Loving yourself means you don't let yourself be pushed around just to please others. Learn to say "NO" when it matters.

2. Need others -
  Trusting others is the difficult specially when you have been cheated once. Still you cannot manage all stress by yourself, you do need others. Be brave enough to ask for help.

3. Its not always about winning -
  The worst strategy to manage stress, is to take any situation as an ego battle and keep fighting till you win or you are destroyed. Sometimes you have to learn to give up and move ahead.

4. You are responsible for your reaction -
 Stress can lead to 100 different physical problems. From high BP, hair loss to obesity. You are too be blamed for it. They happened because at some moment you needed to detach from the stress.

5. The way out -
There is always a way out. It might not be as per your ego, but there is a way out. Take that way. That's what differentiates winners from losers.

Anger !

Medical Facts about Anger :

I. Disappointment is often the most common cause for anger.
    Upto 85% of the time, a person might be expressing his disappointment through anger.

II. The most common causes for "preventable" anger are -

a. hunger
b. lack of sleep
c. incomplete orgasm
d. physical pain
e. craving for smoking, alcohol or food.

III. The most common causes for "psychological" anger are -

a. stress
b. mental conditioning due to social environment
c. clinical depression/anxiety
d. personality disorder
e. inferiority complex

IV. Common ways to "manage" anger -

a.  Have proper sleep
b.  practice to eating food at regular intervals
c.  have medical examination and treatment for a good physical health
d. have medical and psychiatric treatment for a good mental health
e. coping mechanisms - yoga, counselling, exercise, cooking, support group, etc.

How is your Selfishness Satisfied?

Everyone is selfish that a truth..
Still many people land up visiting me with problems of depression, stress or fear even if their selfish desires came true.

The reason - selfishness compromises of 6 psychological parameters -

1. Time Limit - Your mind has a "mental clock", if your desires ain't fulfilled in this time frame, the mind starts detaching from the same.

The more restless you are the shorter your time limit.

2. Favorably Unique - Your selfishness should be satisfied in a way its better than everyone elses.

3. Reaction - your selfishness should trigger a reaction in others.

4. You and only You - Your selfishness should only benefit you and those you want. Not anyone else.

5. Accepted - Everyone should accept your selfishness and suppress their own. They should keep giving you love, care and kindness.

6. Unquestionable - Nobody should question you about your selfishness. Accepting that you have been selfish is difficult. It can trigger emotions from embarrassment to anger. So like to hide it under "greater ideals"

When all these 6 are satisfied, selfishness gives extreme pleasure and fulfillment.
 Else it can give rise depression, fear and anger.