Signs that your relationship is about to Break?

Signs that your relationship is about to Break?
The following are applicable to most relationships. It could be friendship, family, at work or with your partner.
1. Slowly and suddenly your inputs are not valuable as before.
2. Suddenly Important Programs and meetings come up, which you were not informed about and in which you aren't included.
3. Your queries are met with a irritation and anger. No clear answer is given.
4. Plans and programs you plan are suddenly cancelled or conveniently "forgotten".
5. Conversations that involve the future are avoided.
6. You Feel alienated and try desperately to hold on by bringing change in yourself.

What to do when faced with such a situation?
1. Talk it out and seek clear answers - Unfortunately in 99% cases the defaulting party will lie to you or divert the conversation.
2. Try and find out if there is a 3rd person involved in the whole situation.
In the great majority of situations there is always a 3rd person.
3. Try and solve it through dialogue.
4. Don't demean yourself - You have given enough for the relationship.
5. Don't destroy your self-esteem by psychology "Begging or pleading" for the other party to stay.
6. Always remember when you moving away the first days will be difficult, you'll require some help.. but after that you will be free to create a better relationship.
7. Never forget the person who did this to you.. and never ever forget the 3rd person who triggered this.
Love yourself.. remember you can create much better relationships.. Its the time to give a pat on your back and move ahead into happiness.

 by -
Dr.Hemant Mittal (MBBS, DPM)