Thursday, August 21, 2014

Lack of Patience and its effects on your life

How you loose grip on a situation because of The Lack of Patience
A young woman asks a doctor a question.. the doctor is busy takes sometime to respond.. she loses her patience and walks out of the place!!! - she doesn't get her answer
A man is waiting for his food, it gets delayed by few minutes.. looses his patience and walks out of the place - feeling hungry..
A boss is waiting for a file.. he hurries the junior to submit it.. in a hurry the junior makes a huge mistake - it results in loss of money!!
Patience is one of the most essential virtues a human being needs to have.
If you don't have it, its great time to cultivate one. If you have it, its time to give yourself a pat on your back.
Patience is result of your Ego. The higher you are attached to the outcome of a situation, the more inpatient you'll become.
In terms of human psychiatry - lack of patience symbolises a very high restlessness. This restlessness in turn is most commonly a product of need for perfection, inferiority complex or clinical depression.
The 3 most important aspects of losing your Patience -
1. You loose the advantage - The first to loose patience tends to expose his weakness. Those who know how to use this weakness can easily exploit one.
2. Losing your patience say you have a personality dominated by the need for control and significance.. while you are helpless against uncertainty.
This means you are selfish about giving love.
3. Loosing patience gives rise to anger. Anger makes you act in funny ways. In ways people dislike you, and a situation becomes more uncertain, there requiring more patience.

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